Mental Health Pyramid

My husband, an engineer, asked me, “Isn’t there something like the Food Pyramid for how to take care of your mental health?” WHAT A BRILLIANT IDEA! So, I created this.

I give you the Mental Health Pyramid!

Start at the bottom and work your way up:

Social Connection doesn’t mean that you have a ton of close friends or supportive family members. It means that you have some meaningful connections – people in your life that you can go to when you need help or support, want to talk things through, or just need to reach out. This can even be a person you know only virtually, if it is truly someone real that you can talk to about things. If you don’t have this, Step One to better mental health is to find it. If there truly isn’t someone in your immediate life that you can reach out to, this is what a therapist is for. Find someone today! And talk to the people you do have in your life – we all need a place to connect and relate.

Goals/Purpose are what give our lives meaning. It might be just deciding what the next thing you want to work on is, personally or professionally. It might be thinking about what is important to you, or where you want to be in 5-10 years (start with 1 day in the future – something you want to do tomorrow – if five years is too far in the future!). This can be a concrete plan or something really written down on paper, or it can be ideas and interests, or new things you want to try. You have to hold a sense that you are heading somewhere to stay motivated to keep going, even when things get difficult.

Mindfulness/Self-soothing Skills are the things we do to stay or get back on track in the moment. Hard things are going to happen. There are going to be times we don’t feel awesome. Practicing mindfulness skills and self-soothing can both prevent the negative emotions from taking up so much space, and also shorten the length of time we have to spend in them. Self-soothing skills are things that you do to soothe yourself, or make yourself feel better – things like taking a bath, listening to music, giving yourself a break or a treat. The best things you can do to self-soothe are those that are free and those that don’t have negative consequences down the road (i.e. smoking or drinking or overeating) – try to identify something free and healthy that you can build in to your self-soothing regimen. Mindfulness skills are things we do to stay in the present moment, to pull our minds out of ruminating about things that have already happened or things that might happen in the future. Staying in the present moment is grounding and soothing as well, and reduces many mental health symptoms all by itself (and it’s free and healthy). Check out the gallery of Mindfulness activities for a quick start.

Lifestyle is really about these things: Sleep, nutrition, exercise, living environment – the things that keep us physically healthy and also impact our mental health in really serious ways. Pay attention to where you have trouble with your sleep, your eating habits, and your exercise (or lack thereof). Think about how you’re doing with all three things every day. Even small improvements in these areas can really make you feel better quickly!

Therapy is really helpful for a lot of people and a lot of different issues. You can go see a therapist even if you’re not quite sure what is wrong or you don’t have a “problem” right now. It can be helpful just to talk to someone who is outside of your current situation and life and can give a different perspective. You can try different therapists to find the best fit, and you only have to go for as long as you want! Many therapists will give you a free first session, which is a great time to just let them know what is going on with your life and see if you feel good about the response. You can connect here to ask any questions you might have about what therapy is like or how to go about finding a therapist.

Medication (as needed) – Mental health medications are really important and necessary for a lot of people. If you have tried other things in the pyramid and they haven’t worked, or even if you’re just curious about whether a medication might help you, talk to a qualified prescriber right away. Your regular doctor can be a starting point – most physicians and nurse practitioners can prescribe basic antidepressant and anti-anxiety medications. For more complex issues, you’ll want to find a psychiatrist who has some more mental health training and be sure to find someone that you feel comfortable with, who really listens to you and has your goals and best interests in mind.

For more information or training on this graphic or any of the points above, please contact us!

Jessie Everts, PhD LMFT

Nature and Mental Health 2 (Glacier National Park)

Hello from beautiful Glacier National Park in Montana!

Another great study showed that just noticing nature in your everyday surroundings elevates both your mood and your sense of connectedness to other people. You don’t even have to be around other people to feel more connected to them! This is good news for introverts everywhere!

I hope you’ll share your experiences of nature making you feel more connected below!

Jessie Everts, PhD LMFT

Hidden Lake

Nature and Mental Health

Hello from beautiful Banff National Park in Alberta, Canada!

A study found that walking in nature versus walking in the city was associated with lower activity in the brain centers that lead us to ruminate and focus on negative emotions. This has been my experience – the more I walk through these mountains, the less I think about the past or future – I’m in the moment and it’s a beautiful one.

I hope you’ll share your experiences of nature impacting your mental health below!

Jessie Everts, PhD LMFT

View from the top of Sulphur Mountain

Cave and Basin National Historic Site

Bow Lake

Trauma-responsive spaces

In a previous post, we talked about how trauma and access to traumatic events is becoming more widespread as we become a more virtually connected and global society. Over 50% of US adults have directly experienced one or more traumatic events in their lives. They and all of the rest now have access to see traumatic events that happen around the world every day. The effects of trauma are not something that we can ignore anywhere – especially in our workplaces, where we expect employees to be able to perform to their very best potential every single day, regardless of what may have happened or be happening in their lives outside of the workplace.

It’s becoming so important to build trauma-informed and trauma-responsive spaces and workplaces, mostly because we don’t know what has gone on in another person’s life up to the point we hire or work with them. A workplace that is trauma-responsive is one that is as least triggering to anyone who has experienced trauma in their lives (again, that’s over half of us!), and is at best supportive of the mental health of all who enter/work there, even and especially those who have been through hard things.

Ways we can start to build trauma-responsive spaces and workplaces include:

·         Demonstrating a clear commitment to mental health and trauma responsiveness by stating it overtly in workplace policies and handbooks.

·         Communicating that employers/managers know about trauma and mental health, and have real, practical ways that they show employees that they understand and lead by example.

·         Having someone from outside the agency do a walk-through to let you know how your physical space does/doesn’t support the needs of someone who may have been through trauma or have mental health issues.

Connect for more training/consultation on trauma-responsive spaces!

Jessie Everts, PhD LMFT

Next week, I’ll be off on a family vacation through some beautiful national parks in Canada and the US! I plan to post about Nature and Mental Health while I’m there, so stay tuned!